low-key
Definitions
Quiet, modest, or restrained; not elaborate or showy.
Secretive or done in a way that avoids attracting attention.
A state of being relaxed or casual.
Examples
We decided to have a low-key celebration at home instead of going out to a crowded club.
I have a low-key crush on my coworker, but I'm not ready to tell anyone yet.
Synonyms
understated subtle restrained modest unobtrusive quiet mellow
Antonyms
ostentatious flamboyant showy loud garish conspicuous extravagant